🌎 Expatriation - the beauty of in-between lives !
- marineberthelet
- 4 days ago
- 3 min read

👉 For everyone who has ever left, arrived, and found themselves somewhere beautifully in between.
There’s a quiet magic in being between worlds.
It’s not always easy to see it — especially when you’re standing in the middle of an unfamiliar street, searching for words that don’t come, or scrolling through social media wondering where “home” really is.
But hidden inside that uncertainty lies one of the most beautiful parts of expatriation: learning to live fully in between.
👉 Neither here nor there — and somehow, both
When you move abroad, you slowly realize that the place you came from and the place you now live begin to weave together inside you.Your accent shifts. Your habits change. You crave food from both places. You start saying “yes” like a local, but still dream in your mother tongue.
You become a patchwork of worlds.
At first, it can feel disorienting. You might feel like you no longer belong entirely anywhere. But over time, that very in-betweenness becomes a source of richness — a living reminder that identity isn’t a fixed destination, but an evolving journey.
“Maybe belonging isn’t about where you are. Maybe it’s about how you carry the places that shaped you.”
👉 The gift of seeing through many lenses
Living in between cultures gives you double vision. You begin to see the world through more than one lens — the one you were born with, and the one you’re growing into.
You notice what locals take for granted. You understand the quiet codes of behavior that shape a culture’s rhythm. You learn empathy, not from books, but from daily life — from listening, observing, adjusting, and realizing that there are many “right” ways to be human.
It’s not just adaptation. It's an expansion.
You start to carry inside you the calm of one country, the humor of another, the openness of yet another.
You are no longer a single story — you are a collection of them.
👉 The beauty of belonging everywhere (and nowhere)
There’s a bittersweet truth to expat life: the more places you live, the more your heart becomes divided.
Every time you move, you leave a version of yourself behind — a street, a café, a set of friends who knew you in that chapter.
But instead of seeing that as loss, what if we saw it as gain?
Each place gives you something to keep. A taste. A smell. A rhythm. A word that doesn’t quite translate but changes you forever.
Your sense of belonging stretches — until it’s no longer tied to one pin on a map, but to the world itself.
“Home becomes less of a location, and more of a feeling you carry with you.”
Living in the in-between
To live in between is to live in motion — to always be learning, shifting, reinventing.
It’s the art of embracing contradictions: feeling homesick and adventurous, foreign and familiar, lost and found, all at once.
It’s not about choosing one life over another, but about allowing yourself to be both.
So if you ever feel caught between who you were and who you’re becoming — pause.
Look around.
This in-between space you’re standing in?
That’s where the growth happens.That’s where you become more than you ever were before.
👉💡 A final thought!
Expatriation isn’t a single story of leaving or arriving — it’s an ongoing conversation between places, people, and selves.
It teaches us to hold contradictions with grace, to love without borders, and to find peace in the fluid, undefined spaces of life.
Because sometimes, the most beautiful lives are not the ones rooted in one place, but the ones that bloom in between. 🌿
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