🌎 The art of starting over
- marineberthelet
- Oct 27
- 2 min read
Have you ever felt that quiet pull to start again somewhere new?
Maybe you’ve caught yourself scrolling through photos of a city you’ve never visited or daydreaming about what it would be like to live somewhere that doesn’t yet feel like “home.”
That feeling is often how a new chapter begins — not with a big decision, but with curiosity.
Why we crave a fresh start
Moving abroad is rarely just about changing countries.
Most people do it because they want something deeper: a sense of possibility, freedom, or reinvention.It’s about stepping out of what’s familiar to see what else is possible for your life — and for yourself.
But that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Starting over means letting go of comfort. It means saying goodbye to people, routines, and even the version of yourself that fit perfectly where you were.
Facing the unknown
At first, it’s uncomfortable. You’ll make mistakes, misunderstand people, and sometimes feel like you don’t belong anywhere. But that’s part of the process — it’s how you learn to adapt, to listen, and to grow.
When you live abroad, you start to realize how capable you actually are. You handle things you never thought you could — finding an apartment in another language, opening a bank account, building a new circle of friends. Each small win builds confidence.
And one day, without noticing it, you realize you’ve created a life from scratch — and it’s yours.
It’s not about running away
People often assume moving abroad is about escaping something. But most of the time, it’s about expanding. You’re not leaving your old life behind — you’re adding to it.
You’re collecting experiences, skills, and stories that will shape you for years to come.
Starting over doesn’t erase who you are. It just helps you meet new sides of yourself.
If you’re thinking about It…
If the idea of living abroad keeps coming back to you, don’t ignore it. You don’t have to have all the answers. You don’t even need to know where to start.
Just begin by exploring. Research countries. Talk to expats. Take a short trip and imagine what life could look like there.

You might be surprised by how right it feels to start again.
Starting over isn’t a step backward — it’s a sign that you’re ready for more.




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